So…
five+ hourse post-wakeup this morning and everything is changed. wrong.
Apparently P’s also been having a really intimate (but not sexual) relationship with a coworker as well. They have lunch 3 or 4 times a week (he tosses out the lunches I make him each day, and then charges the lunches on a credit card only in his name). They discuss their marriages (she’s divorced, but they’re working on things), kids, and their sex lives.
This came to light b/c he deleted a FB message thread with the coworker likethis while I was looking through his phone, and she promptly sent him a, “What’s going on??” text. I asked him some questions and he sidestepped them more than once, so I called her. She picked up right away and I said, “Hi, Katie? This is-” when she hung up.
P called her and she picked up on the first ring. She confirmed that their relationship wasn’t sexual and then we all three had a awkward, fucked up conversation.
He felt like he couldn’t talk to me, so in addition to the GRAPHIC sexting he’s done, he also turned to this other girl.
P is the eternal “good guy.” He’s so nice and we’ve been told that, although we definitely bicker, others look up to our marriage. If I was to tell ANYONE about this, they’d be shocked.
But it’s such a front. He’s deceptive.
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austintranslations said:
I am so, so sorry.
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erthy-e said:
i think couples struggle the most the first year of their kids life…it is so tough, hang in there, time heals everything
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carolineandco said:
ugh, sooo sorry you’re going through this.
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thestoryofoneconnecticutgirl said:
(not really “like” but support). Oh man. Hang in there.
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